Pink Passion Party, Friday - Sunday, February 12 - 14, 2009

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Swinger's Christmas Food Shelf Drive and Dance

In This Holiday Season, We Are Fortunate To Be Out Partying. In the Spirit of the Holiday Season, let's use our partying and having fun to include those less fortunate than us, Saturday, December 5, 2009, 7pm to 12am, near the Mall of America in Bloomington.

While enjoying the season, and meeting fun people, you'll be able to help the needy to have a fantastic Holiday Season!!! By bringing a non-perishable item to donate to charity (or donate $5), your name will be entered in the drawing to win a FREE entrance to either SwingStock, July 14 - 18, 2010, $100 off the Pink Passion Couples Only Retreat, February 12 - 14, 2010 or $400 off a one year lease at Two Creeks Campground, May 1 to October 31, 2010.

Bring as many nonperishable food items as you can or monetary donation to contribute to a MN Food Shelf. Last year we donated hundreds of pounds of food to charity. We would like to top that this year, so bring your generous hearts, check books, and many non-perishable food items as possible. So get in your holiday spirit, come out, meet great friends, make new ones, feel good about yourself, and help us stock the food shelves.

As a way of saying thank you, we are doing with style, with a dance to include a sumptuous hors d'oeuvres and many fun like-minded people. That's right for only $15 per member*, your night includes a dance and a sumptuous selection of food to fuel your soul for the excitement to come.

Also because this is being held in a hotel, we are encouraging you to get a room. Our members will be on a private, secure floor where you'll need a pass key to enter that floor either from the elevator or the stair. It's only $80 per night with our group when booked by December 1, 2009 (after December 1, this rate is available on a space available basis) and includes breakfast for up to two people. Details about our group block will be sent to you when you register. So get a room, relax and don't worry about driving after the party.

This event will start at 7pm with orientation for new attendees, followed at 8pm with the dance and hors d'oeuvres. This will go until 12am in the morning. As usual, there will be an After Hours Hospitality Suite. So, register today, and tell all your friends to come join you.

We'll have all types of people in attendance, from new, to curious; from swingers to non-swingers; exhibitionists to voyeurs; straight to bi-sexual people; people into fetish, BDSM, and the like. Whatever you're looking for, you're bound to find at this event.

For more details and to register online, visit AttractionUSA.com or call 320-245-6803.

Etiquette for swingers

Being in the swinging lifestyle for a couple decades now, we can tell you that there are no actual formal rules for any given swinger's party. Each host will give you a guideline for their event, but generally if you practice good manners and follow the golden rule, you'll have a wonderful time. Basically the guidelines below are for swingers house parties where sex take place, but it can be applied to social events such as local swingers dances, camp outs and retreats.

A swingers party is a happening where adult couples and select singles meet for an evening of sex in a safe and friendly environment. This can take place at a private residence or at an actual on premise swingers club where a relaxed atmosphere is created with candles, music, finger food and drinks. Be sure to bring condoms with you; some people use them and some people don't. But it's up to YOU to assess the risk of sexual contact and to practice safe sex within your standards.

You have to be over 18 if you want to attend a swinger party, but some hosts will require you to be 21 or older, especially if alcohol is being served. Apart from the age factor, a swingers party is really open to anybody. Swingers come from all different socio-economic backgrounds and take on different facets. Swingers are from all racial persuasions and a mix of ethnicities at an event can lead to a sexually charged party.

The important thing to remember when you are going to a swingers event is that you are a guest and should behave so. You will be ignored by other attendees for misbehaving at swingers parties and may be asked to leave.

It’s always important to greet your host and hostess when you arrive at a swingers party and to thank them afterwards. There will be an area where the host or hostess will greet the guests and encourage them to relax and mingle with the other guests. They will also introduce you to other attendees, especially if this is your first event. By introducing you to new people, you'll stand a better chance of hooking up and have a great night.

Be polite to the other guests of the party or event. If they invite you for a threesome or a gang-bang that you don’t want to partake in then just gently say no thanks. Don’t insult them and never try to force yourself on other adults who don’t want you. Remember that no always means no. If you are in a situation where you are telling another guest no and they refuse to listen, inform the host. It is part of their responsibility to keep all the guests in order and make sure that everyone is having fun.

Every party takes on a life of it's own; with some, there is a lot of small talk; with some, sex starts almost instanteonously. It all depends on the attendees, the mood, and the make up of that swingers group. Sex starts quickly at a party where local swingers are comfortable with each other.

Most adults attend swapping parties to be free sexually and many to build long lasting friendships. Be sure to get names, emal addresses or phone number to keep in touch. The host of the party will not give you that information, so it's up to you to get it. Many people will keep in touch with you after a party and invite you back to their home for a drink, dinner or anything in between. Most swingers value this type of friendship, but there are those you'll never see again. They are just there for the sex only and not interested in being friends with benefits.

Word of mouth is also huge in the swingers community so if you enjoy the party, be sure to let your lifestyle friends know about it.

Safe Swinging to You!!!

Minnesota swinger's Halloween Event

Swinger's Super Spooky, Super Sexy Halloween
Bash in Bloomington, Minnesota

It’s time for the mother of all swinger's Halloween Dances in Minnesota !!! Get your favorite costume and prepare to boogie all night! This is the time of All Hallows Eve, the time to be ghoulishly sexy, spectacularly spooky & everything in between!!! A SPECIAL VENUE Holiday Inn Select is a fresh venue where you don't have to worry about driving back home. We will have our own private room, a wonderful appetizer spread, complete with DJ and our own private bartender! BUT WAIT THERE IS MORE This HOT party comes complete with FREE entrance to our private After Hours hospitality suite where the party will continue until the wee hours of the morning. You can be a part of this groundbreaking phenomenon for only $30 per member couple, $20 per member single female and $30 per member single male. All swinger's lifestyle clubs and online communities are welcome to attend. Non-members can attend also, please see the reservation form for the rates. YOU DON’T WANT TO MISS THIS!!! Want to get a sneak peak at this beautiful party place? Please click here. ACCOMMODATIONS Rooms are available for only $80 for a standard room or $99 for a suite for the night. Enjoy a spectacular room complete with FREE in room Wi-Fi, microwave, refrigerator and a 37" LCD TV, and breakfast for two. Details on how to get this room at this spectacular rate will be given once your reservation has been made. So there is no need to drive. Get a room, and come join in the fun. For more details, to meet local Minnesota Swingers and Wisconsin Swingers and to register online, go to SexyHalloween.com or call 320-245-6803 to register over the phone.

Tantra Workshop at Flesh, August 21 - 23, 2009

In the spirit of the Two Creeks Flesh Shorts and Bikini Party, August 21-23, 2009, we have a unique opportunity for sensual fun. We have a tantra instructor that will offer a session where you can learn about and experience Tantra and Contact Improvisation. This will be held on Saturday, August 22nd, about 1:00pm

TANTRA: Learn the basics of Tantra,the ancient art of physical and spiritual ecstasy. Learn how to increase yours and your partner's pleasure during sex and how to unleash your sexual power in your daily life. Workshop will include fun partner and solo exercises and will conclude with a "puja", that is, a circle within a circle of men and women who perform short intimate rituals together before changing partners. The exercises are designed to aid in: increasing physical, sexual, emotional and spiritual intimacy with yourself and others, ejaculation control for men, female ejaculation, multiple orgasms, how to connect more deeply with your with your partner(s), with your own body, and with the divine inherent in us and all others in the universe around us.

CONTACT IMPROVISATION (clothing optional): Rolling, sliding and gliding against your partner, flowing with the points of contact between your bodies, Contact Improvisation is a way of dancing using your partner's weight as a moving counter balance and support for your body. Contact Improvisation means paying close attention to your partner's movements and responding in each moment without a plan but with the joy of just letting go of your mind and letting your body take over. Usually done in a fully clothed environment, Contact Improvisation becomes even more sensuous and playful when done with little or no clothing.

So get register today for Flesh Shorts and Bikini Party and come experience Tantric sensuality and love, by going to AttractionUSA.com or register over the phone by calling 320-245-6803.

Swinger's Hump Day - Midweek Party in Minnesota

Many of us can't come out on Friday or Saturday because we work weekends; many of you have asked for a week day party so that you can get out and have some fun with like minded people. Well, here it is - the Hump Day Social - A Mid Week Party for those that can. Please go to AttractionUSA.com for the date and registration information.

Because it's a Mid Week Party on a Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday, we don't know how many people will be in attendance. It could be your chance to relax by yourself, with just a few or a bunch of people.

With the Hump Day Social - A Mid Week Party there might be impromptu dances, bloody Mary bars, singing over an open fire or a private tryst with one or more people. It’s whatever the your mood is! It will all depend on who is in attendance.
So come on out to the number one lifestyle friendly community in the Midwest. It’s not a KOA or some uptight, restricted naturist or nudist campground with kids. It’s a place for free spirited adults over the age 21, to let loose and be your own beautiful self.

The Hump Day Social - A Mid Week Party is whatever you make it to be!!!

The daily rate is only is $20* per site for up to two people for staying Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday. Camping in your tent, RV, Travel Trailer, etc., is FREE. Electric hookup is $15 per day and water hookup is only $5 extra per day. If you wish to camp on a weekend, please visit AttractionUSA.com for the current rate.

For details on registering, please visit AttractionUSA.com or call 320-245-6803 to register over the phone.

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Swingers Campout

In Touch, May 15 - 17, 2009 in Minnesota

Come join us at the In Touch Lifestyle Weekend, Friday - Sunday, May 15- 17, 2009 at Two Creeks Community, just East of Sandstone for a party with like-minded people.

In Touch defined is a way of sharing, keeping abreast of information and in this lifestyle of being affectionate and warm; lifestyle is defined as a way of life or style of living that reflects the attitudes and values of a person or group.

Well the definitions above describe this weekend party. This is your weekend to share, get up to date information, and be affectionate and warm in a lifestyle which is uniquely you. It’s a time for everyone in attendance to reflect the fun attitudes that you have towards life and others.

Come out and let your hair down with other adults, all over the age of 21 in an atmosphere that’s conducive to your reality; come out and being In Touch with your fantasies by sharing it with others in the Lifestyle who cares and appreciate your very being; that is: whatever your desire, as long as it’s not forced or coerced there is bound to be someone or a group that will help you realize it.

This party weekend is opened to everyone regardless of your experience; you can be a newbie to a veteran; you can be curious or be wild. Nothing is expected of you; there is no pressure to do anything. Just be yourself. If you want to just lie around, do it! If you want to be wild and naughty, then do it! Wanna go for a walk nude? You can do it! Remember, there are no children allowed at this adult’s only community. It’s all adults just like you.

For more details and to register online, please visit AttractionUSA.com or call 320-245-6803 to register over the phone.

Cinco de Mayo Stay and Play Swinger's Party

Cinco de Mayo International Swingers Weekend Campout in Minnesota Come celebrate your heritage at the Cinco de Mayo International Weekend Party and Campout at the Season Opener weekend at Two Creeks, just North of the Twin Cities near Sandstone, MN, Friday - Sunday, May 1 - 3, 2009.

Real Campers swingers event hosted by Attraction in Minnesota This weekend, we'll celebrate not just being an American, but also our backgrounds. We'll celebrate not just Cinco de Mayo, but all nationalities. We are asking everyone to come share your stories about your heritage; fly your ancestral flag; come share your traditional food/dish at the Potluck on Saturday.

We expect all types of people to be in attendance; we expect many nationalities and countries to be represented. So whatever your background ... i.e. Latino, Scandinavian, French, Jamaican, English, African-American, Irish, East Indian, Native American (etc., just to name a few), come share and party with us; we suggest that you wear a traditional outfit, or something that's unique to you and your background. Also, bring a dish to share... for example - we know that Jamaican Jerk Chicken will be a part of the potluck dinner on Saturday. What will you be bringing?

Oh yeah - did we mention that this will also be a swinger's event? What better way to celebrate May than with friends from all backgrounds. This weekend event will be held at a private, secluded, 100 acre, clothing-optional campground just north of Minneapolis. You can just come in for the dances on Friday and/or Saturday night, or you can camp all weekend long. This event is whatever you make it to be. Details and location will be sent to you via email after you've reserved your space.

This event is as little as $17.50 per person if coming as a couple (add $5 after Wednesday, April 29, 2009).

For more details and to register visit AttractionUSA.com or call 320-245-6803 to register over the phone.

Swinger's House Party

Free Swinger's House Party, Saturday, March 14, 2009

we host many parties
let meet for fun
we are outgoing and enjoy others
OK we are hosting a house party on March 14th
Fondue and box game night .. Nut and Bolt game if we get enough will Partisapents
Its a No pressure No means No party
We have a hot tub and room for 3 couples to spend the night
We will have fondue pots and towels and ice and bedding
YOU BRING YOUR OWN MEAT , dish or snack
Please bring you own toys, booze and personal items
please bring an ice breaker game if YOU have one
there are couple areas to play at our place
please RSVP because we are not posting this party and are only inviting a few couples

hope to have 5 to 10 couples join us with a couple to spend the night
there our hotels near if you want to stay there

we are hoping the night turns from mild to wild
party starts at 6pm March 14th and goes tell we cant go any more

if you want to stay at our home please let us know

if you would like to come early on saturday you welcome we
will be doing last minute things to get ready for the party are welcome just let us know .

For details, visit FriendshipExpress.com.

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Single Men Are Not Swingers

Soap Box - Single Men Are Not Swingers
Toni and Glen

Hi Guys, I just stumbled across your site by accident but what a surprise. We are "Internet Veterans" and have been around these boards since 1996. I've never seen one as comprehensive covering so many areas of the lifestyle. I'm sure you have been commended many times, please add one more to the list!.

I read each article from top to bottom and went away knowing a little more than I did before I got here, that's not the norm with most of these sites. I do have one comment I wanted to make only because you seem to have a sincere and committed interest in the lifestyle and I think you can appreciate all views, weather you agree or not.

I agreed with 95% of everything you say, and that's a pretty good percentage considering the volume of information. I had a problem with the "single male" aspect, may it's a regional thing but here in Florida the large majority of couples do NOT entertain single men. We have had two local "lifestyle clubs" (You are right "Fuck Clubs" is not a word we need to be using) close their doors on Friday nights, Why? On Friday's single men were admitted, on Saturdays they were forbidden. They closed due to lack of business, and the only reason there was no business was directly attributed to single men. (This fact is openly discussed on Saturday's when the places are a mob scene.)

My personal feelings are this; I don't recognize single men as "swingers" (Like they care what I recognize LOL) In many of your articles you discussed the many facets of the lifestyle that go far beyond the sexual aspect, and much of it was all based around a "couple relationship" the sharing and communication between TWO individuals. I could not agree more. In my "humble" opinion a single man in the lifestyle is not a swinger, he just a single man that is horny, and although I'm not a physiologist, nor do I play one on TV, I think these are men who can't deal with women on a full time, adult level. So they spend their lives in pursuit of a quick two hour affair. I can't recall how many ads/profiles I've read where a single male is looking for a female partner we can swing with, and whine how hard they are to find? I would think they would want to find a partner period, and if somewhere down the road the relationship gravitated to swinging fine. With these men sex is their primary focus, not a relationship. I know there are exceptions to every rule, but my from what I've seen personally what I've described is the rule, not the exception.
You brought out some great points about the lifestyle, it's acceptance, and how others might view it based on terminology, as well as other aspects. The only time being in the lifestyle ever makes me feel uncomfortable is when I'm leered at, or approached by a single man and made to feel like a cheap whore. (Not to count the hundreds of offensive e-mail I've received, figuring many of these creeps are just fools out to bother people) I truly feel that single men are the thorn on the lifestyle rose. Hey that's it, I'll put the soapbox back under the bed and again say thanks for the many informative articles.

Rhonda Tampa, Florida

From Toni and Glen
Hello Rhonda,

I agree with you that many couples do not relate to single men as swingers, per se. However many couples do include single men in their activities, and thus help to enhance their relationship.

I do agree with you that many single men are just in it for sex. There is no denying it. But there is room for many single men in this lifestyle for those couples who seek them out. You could consider them more like another "tool" for enjoyment. No different than that of a vibrator, massage oil, and the like. Some couples do use other "equipment" to enhance their relationship, and singles (that includes single females) can be a viable part.
It's not for you, and that's OK.

No one single activity defines our lifestyle. It runs the whole gammut... some people like chocolate, while others like bananas. It's all a matter of taste. To dictate a "specific" definition as to what defines a swinger, and who we should "play" with would limit our freedom, and in the far reaches of time, invite "Talibanism".

Just our two cents...

Toni and Glen

Hi There!!!

As such, I know I'm an anomaly: a male who, while not single, swings singly, with full disclosure to (and permission of) his partner. I have had much fun within the Metro Milwaukee swinging community, because I have always acted within the guidelines you so eloquently express in your "Advice to Single Males".

I must say I disagree with Rhonda. Yes, many single men are NOT swingers. But, a few, like myself, am. I focus on friendships FIRST. Am I a horny devil? YES! But I need friends, too, and far better to make friends with folks who understand what libido is. :) If nothing sexual happens, you've still made a friend, and that's far more valuable than anything else.
Best of luck, love and lust to you both!

AldousPolyamorous Hedonist,Madison, WI

Join in on the discussion, send your thoughts to toni.and.glen@tfexp.com

A Swingers Community In Splinters

The Lifestyle
A Community In Splinters?
By Shelly and Dan of Alternative Travel

Since returning a few weeks ago from Conclave, a swinger's convention in Chicago, we have had time to evaluate the information we shared at the club owner’s meetings and keynote address. We would like to share what we felt was the general consensus among attendees.

The club owner’s meeting addressed some issues that have come up regarding the right’s of loving couples to assemble in Pennsylvania. A bill currently before the Pennsylvania state legislature is causing shudders throughout the lifestyle It call for the closure of all couples clubs whose purpose is to promote or meet for sex. This is putting it simply without the legal wording contained within the bill. Those who have the most to fear are the on-premise clubs. The opinion was that it may well be passed and then fought over the courts. Once a bill is passed it will end up in an ongoing battle for years. The court may also render a decision that other states may follow, using the Pennsylvania bill as a landmark for other cases.

On the other side of the room, a call was put forth that we need to clean up our act and take the emphasis of the lifestyle off sex. We must eliminate focusing our information on sexual activity alone. Instead, we need to promote our social activities. We all know why we go to clubs and what our expectations are. Do we really need to broadcast our intent to the community at large? I think not.

Toni and Glen of Club H, the keynote speakers, said what we have felt for years. They said that this lifestyle needs to clean up its act and present a positive image. The lifestyle has a responsibility to avoid negative press and to focus attention away from our sexual activities, much like the gay and lesbian community did many years ago. They received a standing ovation from 300 couples and mutual agree among most of the participants.

The lifestyle community needs to realize that we are under assault from political and religious groups. We make ourselves very easy targets. Most of us are unwilling to fight for the right to assemble, and our foes know it! If you think this is idle speculation, you’re wrong! It is real and our clubs are definite targets. First on their his list are the on-premise swing clubs, which are considered to be the bath houses of our lifestyle. There are enough community standards being violated and it’s easy to use local laws to close and prosecute. Any anyone on the club premises who’s even partially disrobed goes along for a ride in the paddy wagon. Sure, we can fight it after the fact and probably win! That is if you have enough money and lawyers. And, after you’re booked, identified, fingerprinted and written up in your local paper, complete with mug shots. Scary? You bet it is!

Off premise (dance/social) clubs need to protect themselves as well. Keep your patrons dressed! There plenty of time to party after the ball. Don’t provide them ammunition by loading the pistol yourself. Use common sense, and of course your “big” head to think with not your “little” one! Some clubs will tell you anything they think you want to hear. Take it with a grain of salt because it’s your ass that’s on the line.

Most club owners at the Conclave meeting were very much in favor of presenting a positive image while some seemed like they could care less. They wanted nothing to disrupt their operations. The sad part for those who do not take it seriously is that they are putting others in jeopardy. They may, in due time, not have an operation, nor the dollars to defend themselves in a court of law. For some of you this might seem scare or extreme, and in a way it is. Remember... if you are not in violation of any laws, community standing, not attracting unwanted negative attention, you have less to be concerned about.

Look around at the changes going on. There are a lot of positive things taking place that will benefit all of us in the long run. Many clubs are changing attitudes and their focus. Clubs are organizing together to fight the oppression that’s being threatened. We take these groups very serious and are preparing to fight them with our own resources. We don’t have big war chests that they have, but we’ve mounted campaigns though donations to selective civil liberties groups. If we continue to operate as a splintered and divided community, we make ourselves easy targets and sitting ducks. There’s no need to be divided. That is what the other side wants us to do. Let’s not do it to ourselves.

Winter Meltdown Swinger's Dance, Saturday, January 17, 2009

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