Tantra Workshop at Flesh, August 21 - 23, 2009

In the spirit of the Two Creeks Flesh Shorts and Bikini Party, August 21-23, 2009, we have a unique opportunity for sensual fun. We have a tantra instructor that will offer a session where you can learn about and experience Tantra and Contact Improvisation. This will be held on Saturday, August 22nd, about 1:00pm

TANTRA: Learn the basics of Tantra,the ancient art of physical and spiritual ecstasy. Learn how to increase yours and your partner's pleasure during sex and how to unleash your sexual power in your daily life. Workshop will include fun partner and solo exercises and will conclude with a "puja", that is, a circle within a circle of men and women who perform short intimate rituals together before changing partners. The exercises are designed to aid in: increasing physical, sexual, emotional and spiritual intimacy with yourself and others, ejaculation control for men, female ejaculation, multiple orgasms, how to connect more deeply with your with your partner(s), with your own body, and with the divine inherent in us and all others in the universe around us.

CONTACT IMPROVISATION (clothing optional): Rolling, sliding and gliding against your partner, flowing with the points of contact between your bodies, Contact Improvisation is a way of dancing using your partner's weight as a moving counter balance and support for your body. Contact Improvisation means paying close attention to your partner's movements and responding in each moment without a plan but with the joy of just letting go of your mind and letting your body take over. Usually done in a fully clothed environment, Contact Improvisation becomes even more sensuous and playful when done with little or no clothing.

So get register today for Flesh Shorts and Bikini Party and come experience Tantric sensuality and love, by going to AttractionUSA.com or register over the phone by calling 320-245-6803.

Swinger's Hump Day - Midweek Party in Minnesota

Many of us can't come out on Friday or Saturday because we work weekends; many of you have asked for a week day party so that you can get out and have some fun with like minded people. Well, here it is - the Hump Day Social - A Mid Week Party for those that can. Please go to AttractionUSA.com for the date and registration information.

Because it's a Mid Week Party on a Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday, we don't know how many people will be in attendance. It could be your chance to relax by yourself, with just a few or a bunch of people.

With the Hump Day Social - A Mid Week Party there might be impromptu dances, bloody Mary bars, singing over an open fire or a private tryst with one or more people. It’s whatever the your mood is! It will all depend on who is in attendance.
So come on out to the number one lifestyle friendly community in the Midwest. It’s not a KOA or some uptight, restricted naturist or nudist campground with kids. It’s a place for free spirited adults over the age 21, to let loose and be your own beautiful self.

The Hump Day Social - A Mid Week Party is whatever you make it to be!!!

The daily rate is only is $20* per site for up to two people for staying Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday. Camping in your tent, RV, Travel Trailer, etc., is FREE. Electric hookup is $15 per day and water hookup is only $5 extra per day. If you wish to camp on a weekend, please visit AttractionUSA.com for the current rate.

For details on registering, please visit AttractionUSA.com or call 320-245-6803 to register over the phone.

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Swingers Campout

In Touch, May 15 - 17, 2009 in Minnesota

Come join us at the In Touch Lifestyle Weekend, Friday - Sunday, May 15- 17, 2009 at Two Creeks Community, just East of Sandstone for a party with like-minded people.

In Touch defined is a way of sharing, keeping abreast of information and in this lifestyle of being affectionate and warm; lifestyle is defined as a way of life or style of living that reflects the attitudes and values of a person or group.

Well the definitions above describe this weekend party. This is your weekend to share, get up to date information, and be affectionate and warm in a lifestyle which is uniquely you. It’s a time for everyone in attendance to reflect the fun attitudes that you have towards life and others.

Come out and let your hair down with other adults, all over the age of 21 in an atmosphere that’s conducive to your reality; come out and being In Touch with your fantasies by sharing it with others in the Lifestyle who cares and appreciate your very being; that is: whatever your desire, as long as it’s not forced or coerced there is bound to be someone or a group that will help you realize it.

This party weekend is opened to everyone regardless of your experience; you can be a newbie to a veteran; you can be curious or be wild. Nothing is expected of you; there is no pressure to do anything. Just be yourself. If you want to just lie around, do it! If you want to be wild and naughty, then do it! Wanna go for a walk nude? You can do it! Remember, there are no children allowed at this adult’s only community. It’s all adults just like you.

For more details and to register online, please visit AttractionUSA.com or call 320-245-6803 to register over the phone.

Cinco de Mayo Stay and Play Swinger's Party

Cinco de Mayo International Swingers Weekend Campout in Minnesota Come celebrate your heritage at the Cinco de Mayo International Weekend Party and Campout at the Season Opener weekend at Two Creeks, just North of the Twin Cities near Sandstone, MN, Friday - Sunday, May 1 - 3, 2009.

Real Campers swingers event hosted by Attraction in Minnesota This weekend, we'll celebrate not just being an American, but also our backgrounds. We'll celebrate not just Cinco de Mayo, but all nationalities. We are asking everyone to come share your stories about your heritage; fly your ancestral flag; come share your traditional food/dish at the Potluck on Saturday.

We expect all types of people to be in attendance; we expect many nationalities and countries to be represented. So whatever your background ... i.e. Latino, Scandinavian, French, Jamaican, English, African-American, Irish, East Indian, Native American (etc., just to name a few), come share and party with us; we suggest that you wear a traditional outfit, or something that's unique to you and your background. Also, bring a dish to share... for example - we know that Jamaican Jerk Chicken will be a part of the potluck dinner on Saturday. What will you be bringing?

Oh yeah - did we mention that this will also be a swinger's event? What better way to celebrate May than with friends from all backgrounds. This weekend event will be held at a private, secluded, 100 acre, clothing-optional campground just north of Minneapolis. You can just come in for the dances on Friday and/or Saturday night, or you can camp all weekend long. This event is whatever you make it to be. Details and location will be sent to you via email after you've reserved your space.

This event is as little as $17.50 per person if coming as a couple (add $5 after Wednesday, April 29, 2009).

For more details and to register visit AttractionUSA.com or call 320-245-6803 to register over the phone.

Swinger's House Party

Free Swinger's House Party, Saturday, March 14, 2009

we host many parties
let meet for fun
we are outgoing and enjoy others
OK we are hosting a house party on March 14th
Fondue and box game night .. Nut and Bolt game if we get enough will Partisapents
Its a No pressure No means No party
We have a hot tub and room for 3 couples to spend the night
We will have fondue pots and towels and ice and bedding
YOU BRING YOUR OWN MEAT , dish or snack
Please bring you own toys, booze and personal items
please bring an ice breaker game if YOU have one
there are couple areas to play at our place
please RSVP because we are not posting this party and are only inviting a few couples

hope to have 5 to 10 couples join us with a couple to spend the night
there our hotels near if you want to stay there

we are hoping the night turns from mild to wild
party starts at 6pm March 14th and goes tell we cant go any more

if you want to stay at our home please let us know

if you would like to come early on saturday you welcome we
will be doing last minute things to get ready for the party are welcome just let us know .

For details, visit FriendshipExpress.com.

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Single Men Are Not Swingers

Soap Box - Single Men Are Not Swingers
Toni and Glen

Hi Guys, I just stumbled across your site by accident but what a surprise. We are "Internet Veterans" and have been around these boards since 1996. I've never seen one as comprehensive covering so many areas of the lifestyle. I'm sure you have been commended many times, please add one more to the list!.

I read each article from top to bottom and went away knowing a little more than I did before I got here, that's not the norm with most of these sites. I do have one comment I wanted to make only because you seem to have a sincere and committed interest in the lifestyle and I think you can appreciate all views, weather you agree or not.

I agreed with 95% of everything you say, and that's a pretty good percentage considering the volume of information. I had a problem with the "single male" aspect, may it's a regional thing but here in Florida the large majority of couples do NOT entertain single men. We have had two local "lifestyle clubs" (You are right "Fuck Clubs" is not a word we need to be using) close their doors on Friday nights, Why? On Friday's single men were admitted, on Saturdays they were forbidden. They closed due to lack of business, and the only reason there was no business was directly attributed to single men. (This fact is openly discussed on Saturday's when the places are a mob scene.)

My personal feelings are this; I don't recognize single men as "swingers" (Like they care what I recognize LOL) In many of your articles you discussed the many facets of the lifestyle that go far beyond the sexual aspect, and much of it was all based around a "couple relationship" the sharing and communication between TWO individuals. I could not agree more. In my "humble" opinion a single man in the lifestyle is not a swinger, he just a single man that is horny, and although I'm not a physiologist, nor do I play one on TV, I think these are men who can't deal with women on a full time, adult level. So they spend their lives in pursuit of a quick two hour affair. I can't recall how many ads/profiles I've read where a single male is looking for a female partner we can swing with, and whine how hard they are to find? I would think they would want to find a partner period, and if somewhere down the road the relationship gravitated to swinging fine. With these men sex is their primary focus, not a relationship. I know there are exceptions to every rule, but my from what I've seen personally what I've described is the rule, not the exception.
You brought out some great points about the lifestyle, it's acceptance, and how others might view it based on terminology, as well as other aspects. The only time being in the lifestyle ever makes me feel uncomfortable is when I'm leered at, or approached by a single man and made to feel like a cheap whore. (Not to count the hundreds of offensive e-mail I've received, figuring many of these creeps are just fools out to bother people) I truly feel that single men are the thorn on the lifestyle rose. Hey that's it, I'll put the soapbox back under the bed and again say thanks for the many informative articles.

Rhonda Tampa, Florida

From Toni and Glen
Hello Rhonda,

I agree with you that many couples do not relate to single men as swingers, per se. However many couples do include single men in their activities, and thus help to enhance their relationship.

I do agree with you that many single men are just in it for sex. There is no denying it. But there is room for many single men in this lifestyle for those couples who seek them out. You could consider them more like another "tool" for enjoyment. No different than that of a vibrator, massage oil, and the like. Some couples do use other "equipment" to enhance their relationship, and singles (that includes single females) can be a viable part.
It's not for you, and that's OK.

No one single activity defines our lifestyle. It runs the whole gammut... some people like chocolate, while others like bananas. It's all a matter of taste. To dictate a "specific" definition as to what defines a swinger, and who we should "play" with would limit our freedom, and in the far reaches of time, invite "Talibanism".

Just our two cents...

Toni and Glen

Hi There!!!

As such, I know I'm an anomaly: a male who, while not single, swings singly, with full disclosure to (and permission of) his partner. I have had much fun within the Metro Milwaukee swinging community, because I have always acted within the guidelines you so eloquently express in your "Advice to Single Males".

I must say I disagree with Rhonda. Yes, many single men are NOT swingers. But, a few, like myself, am. I focus on friendships FIRST. Am I a horny devil? YES! But I need friends, too, and far better to make friends with folks who understand what libido is. :) If nothing sexual happens, you've still made a friend, and that's far more valuable than anything else.
Best of luck, love and lust to you both!

AldousPolyamorous Hedonist,Madison, WI

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