Wednesday, September 29, 2010
Total Bar Take Over Halloween Bash, Danbury, Wisconsin, Saturday, October 30, 2010
Sunday, October 25, 2009
Etiquette for swingers
Being in the swinging lifestyle for a couple decades now, we can tell you that there are no actual formal rules for any given swinger's party. Each host will give you a guideline for their event, but generally if you practice good manners and follow the golden rule, you'll have a wonderful time. Basically the guidelines below are for swingers house parties where sex take place, but it can be applied to social events such as local swingers dances, camp outs and retreats.
A swingers party is a happening where adult couples and select singles meet for an evening of sex in a safe and friendly environment. This can take place at a private residence or at an actual on premise swingers club where a relaxed atmosphere is created with candles, music, finger food and drinks. Be sure to bring condoms with you; some people use them and some people don't. But it's up to YOU to assess the risk of sexual contact and to practice safe sex within your standards.
You have to be over 18 if you want to attend a swinger party, but some hosts will require you to be 21 or older, especially if alcohol is being served. Apart from the age factor, a swingers party is really open to anybody. Swingers come from all different socio-economic backgrounds and take on different facets. Swingers are from all racial persuasions and a mix of ethnicities at an event can lead to a sexually charged party.
The important thing to remember when you are going to a swingers event is that you are a guest and should behave so. You will be ignored by other attendees for misbehaving at swingers parties and may be asked to leave.
It’s always important to greet your host and hostess when you arrive at a swingers party and to thank them afterwards. There will be an area where the host or hostess will greet the guests and encourage them to relax and mingle with the other guests. They will also introduce you to other attendees, especially if this is your first event. By introducing you to new people, you'll stand a better chance of hooking up and have a great night.
Be polite to the other guests of the party or event. If they invite you for a threesome or a gang-bang that you don’t want to partake in then just gently say no thanks. Don’t insult them and never try to force yourself on other adults who don’t want you. Remember that no always means no. If you are in a situation where you are telling another guest no and they refuse to listen, inform the host. It is part of their responsibility to keep all the guests in order and make sure that everyone is having fun.
Every party takes on a life of it's own; with some, there is a lot of small talk; with some, sex starts almost instanteonously. It all depends on the attendees, the mood, and the make up of that swingers group. Sex starts quickly at a party where local swingers are comfortable with each other.
Most adults attend swapping parties to be free sexually and many to build long lasting friendships. Be sure to get names, emal addresses or phone number to keep in touch. The host of the party will not give you that information, so it's up to you to get it. Many people will keep in touch with you after a party and invite you back to their home for a drink, dinner or anything in between. Most swingers value this type of friendship, but there are those you'll never see again. They are just there for the sex only and not interested in being friends with benefits.
Word of mouth is also huge in the swingers community so if you enjoy the party, be sure to let your lifestyle friends know about it.
Safe Swinging to You!!!
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Swinger's Hump Day - Midweek Party in Minnesota
Because it's a Mid Week Party on a Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday, we don't know how many people will be in attendance. It could be your chance to relax by yourself, with just a few or a bunch of people.
With the Hump Day Social - A Mid Week Party there might be impromptu dances, bloody Mary bars, singing over an open fire or a private tryst with one or more people. It’s whatever the your mood is! It will all depend on who is in attendance.
So come on out to the number one lifestyle friendly community in the Midwest. It’s not a KOA or some uptight, restricted naturist or nudist campground with kids. It’s a place for free spirited adults over the age 21, to let loose and be your own beautiful self.
The Hump Day Social - A Mid Week Party is whatever you make it to be!!!
The daily rate is only is $20* per site for up to two people for staying Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday. Camping in your tent, RV, Travel Trailer, etc., is FREE. Electric hookup is $15 per day and water hookup is only $5 extra per day. If you wish to camp on a weekend, please visit AttractionUSA.com for the current rate.
For details on registering, please visit AttractionUSA.com or call 320-245-6803 to register over the phone.
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Tuesday, April 14, 2009
Cinco de Mayo Stay and Play Swinger's Party
Real Campers swingers event hosted by Attraction in Minnesota This weekend, we'll celebrate not just being an American, but also our backgrounds. We'll celebrate not just Cinco de Mayo, but all nationalities. We are asking everyone to come share your stories about your heritage; fly your ancestral flag; come share your traditional food/dish at the Potluck on Saturday.
We expect all types of people to be in attendance; we expect many nationalities and countries to be represented. So whatever your background ... i.e. Latino, Scandinavian, French, Jamaican, English, African-American, Irish, East Indian, Native American (etc., just to name a few), come share and party with us; we suggest that you wear a traditional outfit, or something that's unique to you and your background. Also, bring a dish to share... for example - we know that Jamaican Jerk Chicken will be a part of the potluck dinner on Saturday. What will you be bringing?
Oh yeah - did we mention that this will also be a swinger's event? What better way to celebrate May than with friends from all backgrounds. This weekend event will be held at a private, secluded, 100 acre, clothing-optional campground just north of Minneapolis. You can just come in for the dances on Friday and/or Saturday night, or you can camp all weekend long. This event is whatever you make it to be. Details and location will be sent to you via email after you've reserved your space.
This event is as little as $17.50 per person if coming as a couple (add $5 after Wednesday, April 29, 2009).
For more details and to register visit AttractionUSA.com or call 320-245-6803 to register over the phone.