WHO ARE SWINGERS?

WHO ARE SWINGERS?

In a word?  Everyone.  Anyone.  Swingers are just like you.  Sexuality counselor and New York Times best-selling author, Ian Kerner estimates there are 15-million swingers in America.  That’s about 5% of the population.  Take a look around your workplace, your church groups, neighborhoods, and your PTA meetings… two of every 40 people jump into bed with other couples for dirty, hot, crazy, untamed sexual interludes.  We actually think that number is a little low.  Unlike some alternative lifestyles, there is still stigma attached to partner-swapping, free-wheeling sexual exploits, and figure many people are unwilling to disclose their true nature.

There is some truth to the pop-culture adage of the “seven-year itch”.  Northern Illinois Professor B.H. King found that sexual habituation leads to changes in the way we interact with our partners.  At three to seven years into a marriage, King found it requires “increased stimulation to produce the sexual excitation previously obtained by a glance or simple touch.”  Translation: It may take pornography, dirty talk, and sexual fantasies to produce the same effect on your libido as one Mai Tai on your honeymoon in Maui.

King estimates that a couple open to new sexual experiences will begin to explore alternative avenues and grow together.  King designates this as a crucial tipping point in a relationship - one in which a marriage and partnership ends (with a spike in divorce rates), or blossoms into a different connection.  Swinging is not always the answer.  In fact, many couples batten down and weather this storm together.  Others turn to cheating to fulltil the spirit of sexual variety and adventure, but that comes with secrecy and deceit.

But swingers - a small minority of relationships - can swallow feelings of jealousy found in unstable relationships and soldier forward in a united, kinky front.  A nationwide study by Bellarmine University Sociology Professor Dr. Curtis Bergstrand found 62% of swingers found that swinging improved their marriages or relationships, 35% said their relationships stayed about the same, and only 1.7% said they became less happy (even half of those who reported “very happy” marriages prior to swinging said they became happier).

Our anecdotal evidence suggests swingers are overwhelmingly middle class, committed couples, who love their spouse, but are sexually adventurous with other adults.  We find swingers tend to be traditionally Conservative, but of a Libertarian ilk, and believe that adults should be allowed to do what they like, as long as it doesn't interfere with others (let me throw my wild sex party, and I’ll keep the screams-of-pleasure from waking the neighbors). 

Who are swingers?  They are you.  They are us.  They are all around.  Welcome to the club, for you are among the sexually liberated few who can truly let loose.

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Games to break the ice

This game was posted on FriendshipExpress.org recently.

How do you like to get things going when you meet a couple? It's sorta awkward at times so here is a naughty Jenga game for swingers. It's worked out so well at breaking the ice and putting everyone at ease that we now have 2 versions , Tame , and Advanced.

We started out by taking a Jenga game and numbering the blocks. That way no one will see "suck all the cocks in the room for 30 seconds" on your Jenga pieces lol

Here's the tasks to go with the numbered blocks that we came up with. The coolest part is that you can make up your own so it fits your personal style.

Dirty Jenga

1-Remove one piece of clothing from the person of your choice (without the help of the person taken from).

2-Remove one piece of clothing from the person of your spouse’s choice (without the help of the person taken from).

3-Have someone remove one piece of your clothing .

4-Do a body shot off the person of your choice.

5-Do 10 naked jumping jacks.

6-Give another person a 1 minute massage.

7-last person to get their mouth on a nipple must remove 1 piece of clothing—

1, 2 ,3 GO !!!

8-Perform a dare from the person directly across from you.

9-Everyone in the game remove 1 piece of clothing except you.

10-Expose a “private” part for 1 round.

11-Choose a player of opposite sex and swap underwear and try on !!!

12-Remove 1 piece of clothing.

13-Remove 1 piece of clothing from each member of opposite sex (without the help of the person taken from).

14-All players do a shot !!!

15- All players remove one piece of clothing.

And Level 2>>>>>

Bambi Bait's Foursome Tango Tower

(If "wood" is required to perform the selected task, your spouse will be your fluffer.)

Knock the tower over: The group picks a task for you.

1. Do a hands only exploration of someone without touching their private part.

2. Stimulate a member of the opposite sex without touching them with your hands or mouth.

3. Fondle someone's breasts or chose someone to fondle yours for a round.

4. Orally pleasure all member's of the opposite sex.

5. Dare your spouse to do something, if they decline they must allow the group to decide their punishment.

6. Manually stimulate someone for one round.

7. Lick/Nibble someone's ear or other body part .

8. Take a picture with someone in the position of your spouse's/partner's choice.

9. Do the "Naughty" with the person of your choice ... BUT first roll the dice to determine the number of strokes allowed.

10. Girls: pose for the cameraman of your choice (3 shots) Boys: pick a girl to pose for you (3 shots).

11. Lick the favorite body part of another for 1 minute.

12. Be pleasured in the manner of your choosing by 2 people for two minutes.

13. For your viewing pleasure, command the other three people to perform the three-way sex act of your choice.

14. Guys- Have the other guy tell you what to do with HIS wife.

Girls- Have the other girl tell you what to do with HER husband.

15. Roll a die: For the rest of the night if you say the assigned word (or the word with any of its suffixes) you must kiss the nearest person of the opposite gender's private part: 1 Nipple 2 Cock 3 Play 4 Swing 5 Lick 6 Suck.

Let us know if how you enjoyed the game and did it help you to break the ice.

Wisconsin Minnesota Swinger's Halloween Party

It’s time for the mother of all swinger's Halloween Dance and Party, Saturday, October 29, 2011!!! Get your favorite costume and prepare to boogie all night! This is the time of All Hallows Eve, the time to be ghoulishly sexy, spectacularly spooky & everything in between!!!

It's a Halloween Total Bar Take Over Bash!!!

A SPECIAL VENUE

This is not just a bar; it's more like a night club and restaurant. You'll have a wide array of menu food items to satisfy any taste. It's located on in downtown Danbury, just east of Hinckley and we'll have this fantastic place all to ourselves from 9pm to 2:30am in the morning. For those who have been to one of our Danbury Bar Take Over events, it's at the same place as the last time. For privacy, the exact location will be sent to you with your confirmed reservation.

SPECIAL RATE

The cost to attend is only $12 per person, when you register online by midnight, Wednesday, October 26.

This Halloween Bash is less than two blocks from the St. Croix Casino-Danbury (formerly known as the Hole In The Wall). You have a choice of staying at the Lodge (the older motel) for only $47 per night or at the brand new casino hotel at $100 per night. We are urging you to call today andget a room for Saturday, October 29 because rooms go fast. The phone number for the casino is 1-800-238-8946. You can ask for the new hotel or the Lodge. So get a room and prepare to Stay and Play all night long.

OPEN TO COUPLES AND SINGLES!!!

After you have added your names to list of those attending, please visit SexyHalloween.com to complete your reservation and get exact location or call 320-245-6803/763-250-1122.

See YOU There!!!

Swinger's Jokes

Three couples – one elderly, one middle-aged, one young and newly wed – apply for membership in a church. The pastor informs them that the requirement for new parishioners is that they abstain from sex for two weeks. The couples agree and go their separate ways.

After two weeks, they return. The pastor asks the elderly pair if they were able to abstain for two weeks. "No problem at all, Pastor," replies the old man.

"Congratulations!" says the pastor. "Welcome to the church." He turns to the middle-aged couple and asks if they were able to abstain for two weeks.

"It was difficult," replies the husband. "By the end of the second week, I had to sleep on the couch, but we did it."

"Congratulations on overcoming temptation," says the pastor. "Welcome to the church." He then turns to the newlyweds and asks if they were able to abstain for two weeks.

"At first it was no problem," says the husband. "But one day my wife was reaching for a can of corn on the top shelf, and she dropped it. When she bent over to pick it up, I was overcome with lust and took advantage of her right there."

"You understand, of course, that this means you will not be welcome in our church," says the pastor.

"We know," says the young man. "We're not welcome at the supermarket anymore either."

Frenchman ordered to pay ex-wife £9,000 for not having sex after marriage

A reluctant husband has been sued for £9,000 by his wife for failing to have sex with her for 'a period of several years'.

The 51-year-old Frenchman, named only as Jean-Louis, neglected his matrimonial duties to wife Monique in Nice, who sued him for 10,000 euros (£8,700) and took her divorce case to an Appeal Court.

The court in Aix-en-Provence heard that the couple had been married for 21 years and raised two children on the French Riviera.

But the strains of work and illness prevented Jean-Louis from fulfilling his matrimonial duties, his advocate pleaded.

Announcing her decision the judge quoted the French civil and penal code, which requires both parties in a marriage to respect ‘lifelong community’ requiring them by law to have sexual relations.

Whereas sexual abstinence in a couple, together with violence and infidelity, are cited regularly in hundreds of divorce claims in France, it is extremely rare for a husband or wife to pay financial damages for specifically failing to satisfy sexually.

The last similar case in France dates back to the year 2000.

In recent years the traditional image of the French lover par excellence has taken a battering from statistics.

The country that put the ‘French’ in front of kiss and purports to speak ‘la langue de l’amour’ is in the process of losing its libido, it would seem.

A survey by the French Institute of Public Opinion questioned 1,000 adults and found that 76% of them ‘suffer relationship problems that due to a poor sex life.

Half of those also polled said they had 'no desire' to make love.

More than a third of French women confessed to citing headaches, fatigue or ‘not in front of the children’ as excuses for saying no. One in six men admitted similar excuses.

Figures show that one in three traditional French marriages ends in divorce.

Growing numbers of French couples are opting for civil solidarity pacts known as PACS .

PACS, contractual agreements also available to same sex partners, were introduced by the government of Lionel Jospin in 1999 and were signed by 700,000 couples during the first ten years of the new legal arrangement.

The new deal has become so popular in France that the expression ‘être pacsé’ is used as often as ‘être marié’ to mean ‘having tied the knot’.

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4th of July Swinger's Party and Campout

Our events are held at Two Creeks Campground, the only lifestyle community with a physical address in the Midwest (see 2creeks.com for details) near Sandstone/Hinckley area. We have about 120 lifestyle friendly residents who have a trailer/lot as this fantastic facility. The sign up list here does not reflect the amount of people who are at Two Creeks at any given time. Depending on the weekend, we’ll have from about 60 to 500 people in attendance. So don’t let this list here sway you from attending. Come on out meet the friendliest lifestylers in the nation. We are more than just a weekly event; we are a thriving community of like minded people.

Come celebrate your right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness with Minnesota's sexiest neighbors, July 1 - 4, 2011. There will be a dance and/or karaoke each night at the Bare's Den; you can socialize in other members' hot tubs, sun, fish, float on the creeks, or do whatever you like. This is a clothing optional event! Bring a dish to share and your party attitude. Tubing, canoeing, fishing, four wheeling and more are just minutes away. Whatever you decide to do during the day, the party will continue at Two Creeks with dances on Friday and Saturday nights. On Saturday, plan on joining us for a potluck dinner at 6pm at the Picnic Pavilion. Enjoy a weekend of fun in the sun and party the way you deserve to - naked!!!

On Friday the July 1st, we'll have the Meet and Greet Dance. Come dressed any way you like and let the fun begin. On Saturday night, it's the Celebration of Freedom Dance. Let' face it, we live in the land of the free, home of the brave. So let's celebrate it; come dressed in your sexiest and wildest red, white and blue outfit and you could win the grand prize, or if you like, dress however you feel comfortable. After all, it's a celebration of freedom!!!

It doesn't matter where you are in this lifestyle; you can be a newbie or a veteran; you can be curious or wild. This event is for you. We'll have people who are swingers, curious, bi-sexual, into fetish, BDSM, voyeurs, exhibitionists, nudists and others who just like the freedom that this campground has to offer. As you're well aware, all attendees must be over the age of 21, and absolutely no children are allowed at this event. It doesn't matter where you are on your journey, come on out! You'll be accepted, and you'll have fun.

So come join us at this totally secluded, 100 acre clothing-optional campground, 100 miles north of Minneapolis/St. Paul, nestled between the Nemadji and the St. Croix State Forests, just east of Sandstone, Minnesota for a Liberty Weekend Party that will be unforgettable.

The environment will give you the freedom that you want. You can express yourself in whatever manner you desire, as long as it's not forced or coerced upon others.

After you've added your name to the list of those attending, please visit AttractionUSA.com to complete your registration and get directions or call 320-245-6803.

Meet Swingers Today

How long have you been in the swinging lifestyle? How often do you swing? Did you come across fun loving swingers? The experience is complete unless and until you come across couples you take you to the extreme level of satisfaction. A couple who understands your needs and fulfills them completely. You need to meet several couples until you get the couple who can satisfy your sexual libido.

If you are a busy person with no spare time to socialize, then you can increase your network through online communities like FriendshipExpress.org. All you need is a personal computer or a laptop that has the internet accessibility. Now, create an account on a reliable swinger community. Make sure that the owner of the website is a lifestyle member. You can socialize with people through this medium and catch up for the swinger activities.

Party hoppers can join a swinger club to meet lifestyle members. It is a common getaway for swinger couples. You can meet people with similar swinger choices. It is a safe setting for swinger activities as swinger clubs give membership after verifying the identity of the concerned swinger. Hence, it is safer than online communities that have several fake profiles at disposal.

However, your behavior plays a crucial role in your swinging endeavor. You need to act politely and respect the demands of your swinger mate. Your lifestyle practices should be safe and convenient. Speak to your swinger partner and make sure he/she is comfortable with you. Remember, swinging is a pleasure only if the people who are involved, swing without any emotional or sexual issues.

Moreover, you shouldn’t limit yourself to a particular activity. Try to experiment with activities and learn new methods of sexual pleasure. Meet maximum swingers and swing with them. The more you swing, the more are chances of achieving satisfaction and meeting the perfect swinger mate. So, take full advantage of the opportunities and grow your swinging network beyond cast, creed, religion and geographical region.